Last week Hostess had a showdown at the O.K. Corral regarding child support. Today I've been reading about this chick who felt she was getting screwed by the father of her child because he claimed he only made X dollars and could only pay X/30 in child support payments.
So old girl got pissed. She's a single mother, struggling and seemed to be under the impression that old boy was going to "do the right thing" by helping financially and being a part of his daughter's life.
Now...when it didn't go as planned or as she THOUGHT it should have gone...she put old boy on B.L.A.S.T in a public forum. I'm saying she put it ALL out there.
She says she's not bitter and that it's only about her daughter who deserves to have a father who wants to take care of her and be in her life.
It kinda makes one wonder if her actions, which come from a VERY angry place, are because she's righteous or because she's bitter.
My question for you...given the brief bit I've shared (I don't know these people mind ya) could righteous anger in this situation be confused with being bitter and vice-versa?
You have UBER sensitive skin and most commercial brands of products break you out something TERRIBLE. You are familiar with someone who ALSO has UBER sensitive skin but whose skin looks really good. Is it REALLY stalkerish to ask what brand of products the person uses or are you being proactive in doing research based on the information and access available to you?
1. No I would NOT eat at a dinner theatre because I don't trust food presented in a "darkened" environment. I need to see the cleanliness of the place AND my food.
2. I love that you love that bag but you know dang good and well I'm not about to tell you who the designer is because I don't want ANYONE going on and on about how much I deemed it worth to buy. Folks judge me harshly for some reason.
3. I drive the truck I drive because I liked it. That's the best answer I can give you. It's not too big...it's the perfect size for me and the dogs, for me and my shopping, for me and my equipment. And yes...it's a gas guzzler in my opinion but if you're worried about how much gas it takes then you really shouldn't be looking at ANY truck.
4. When I'm wearing my hair down, the heat protectant I use is Phyto's Integral Spray but I would think you could use pretty much any leave-in conditioner for dry hair.
It was no surprise to me that some of her icons were shared by me which is why I can always count on her opinion when I'm pulling looks together. Some of yall...I wouldn't ask your opinion on my steelo cuz...erra...well...um...let's just say we're on opposite ends of the spectrum based on some of the things you guys consider HotNESS and HotMESS. LOL! Nothing wrong with YOUR look I'm sure...I just don't think a lot of yall could dress me. :)
My main Diva? Jennifer Lopez. I LOVE her style. It's edgy and everyone couldn't rock it. I think that's kinda me when I'm rocking it out. I don't do traditional looks. I always wear something that made me step back and look at it when I first saw it with my head cocked to the side.
When I'm doing regular...I guess I'm kinda Jennifer Aniston-ish. Clean, classic and simple lines that flatter my figure. I can wear jeans and a white t-shirt...add a jacket (like I did Friday night) and make it look FABU. I could wear that same jean and t-shirt with an outdoor jacket and have a completely different look which still flatters my figure. Me know what looks good on me. LOL! And yup...I'm KNOWN to buy SEVERAL of the same thing if I like it. (Says the woman who just bought TEN of the exact same long sleeve t-shirt. ROFL! Yes...I know I have issues...so sue me and yes...I'm wearing one RIGHT NOW! ROFLROFLROFLROFL!)
That said...who are YOUR icons? Whose style always makes you stop and check out what they are rocking?
When I go out to dinner I never eat more than half of my food. Why? Because in a lot of restaurants they give you waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay more food than anyone should eat in one sitting especially if it is a pasta dish. I can't stand that too full feeling so pretty much the first thing I do is eyeball it to see where I'm going to stop. According to the dish and if we're going anywhere after dinner...I box the rest up for lunch or dinner the next day. Pretty much in 95% of the restaurants I go to...they give you too much food.
Oh...and be careful with the bread at the beginning!
...stays together...or either kills each other with hammers, electric drills, levels and other blunt objects. How in the world do we think we're gonna work in the same space if we can't even hang a dang piece of art without threatening mutilation and other aspects of SEVERE bodily harm is beyond me. Seriously. My poor mother-in-law is going to have her hands full burying both of us because, OF COURSE, we'll have to be buried TOGETHER! LOL! (I wanna be cremated but that's another story ya know?)
So...the his and her office is DONE! Well...mostly. We still have to install the TV/DVD...have the Fios set up along with setting up the printers wirelessly. Oh...and we need some SERIOUS cable management and I've decided on bamboo shades. Robby didn't initially think we'd be able to fit two desks in here but I knew Mr. Elfa would have just the thing for us and I'm glad I wasn't wrong. I can't believe how well everything fit and that we have floor space for the doggie wonders too. GO US!
Don't sleep on Elfa...that stuff is DA TRUF! Now installing it? WHOLE NUDDER STORY! Trust me when I say SEVERAL words of disdain to character have been slung up in here today. Hell...we STILL mad. Before it's all over tonight we might be done tore it the hell down and slung it out the winder. Yeah...I said winder. Yall know when I'm mad I gets mighty country. Why? CUZ I'M COUNTRY HELL! DON'T SLEEP AND DON'T LET THE BOURGIE FOOL YA! I WILL COME UP OUT A DITCH QUICKER THAN BARRACK CAN WORD SLAP AN IDJIT.
It almost went DOWN-T up in here ya heard me? Why you ask? Why would a couple who love each other as much as we do get to whupping out 10 inch utility blades? THIS DAMN SIGN RIGHT HERE! IT ALMOST WENT DOWN-T UP IN HERE BEHIND THIS DANG SIGN!
NOW I AIN'T GONNA SAY NO MO' ABOUT IT YA HEARD ME? I ain't gonna say ish else cuz I know TECHNICALLY it's his side of the dang office and he could put whatever the hell he wants up there and I should say nothing cuz it ain't MY side of the dang office just like TECHNICALLY if he comes home tomorrow from the office and finds it slung the hell out the winder with a big, HUGE gash in the screen in the office...HE CAN'T SAY ISH CUZ HE DOESN'T HAVE ONE IOTA OF PROOF THAT IT WAS I WHO DID IT. Hell...Ms. Olga got keys to 13700, Cojoe does, Tsiporah does and Becca does. ANY.ONE of them coulda broke in and saw the HIDEOUSNESS of that dang sign and been offended to the very CORE of them right? RIGHT.
I've said my peace.
(Must go try yoga, meditation or something cuz it's too dang late to have another glass of wine AND ROBBY ATE ALL MY DANG LAKE CHAMPLAIN CHOCOLATES. Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.)
Do you have anyone you never talk to unless you initiate the call? Do you ever wonder why you still call? Are they aware that you recognize this? Do you think if you stopped calling they wouldn't call you?
Is it ridiculous to expect, in this day and age, that if you're dating someone and really digging them and they are dating you and really digging you...that they won't date other people until you know if the two of you have a future?
So this morn-tink I got up and listened to Joel. Joel was PREACHING today let me tell ya! If you didn't see it...find out when it comes on later in your area cuz it was THE TRUTH!
Basically he was talking about people who ask for little things in their prayers to God and that God wants you to ask pray for BIG things.
Howz about that?
So I was feeling good...no...GREAT! Robby and I decided that we were going to ask God that our financial house becomes such that we could give away $200,000 without it being a wrinkle on our forehead.
There ya have it. A 13700 goal!
I got to school for the special editing boot camp and learned that the instructor, who was VERY sick on yesterday, was so sick he could only stay for 2 minutes today. I won't tell you how difficult it was for me to leave my home this morning, pick up my classmate and get here but I will say this...Joel's message this morning made me remember how very sick I was recently and because of that I couldn't even be mad that no one called me at home to say stay home. When you're as sick as I was...things you shoulda coulda woulda did become LEAVE ME THE HECK ALONE! LOL!
I'm having a good Sunday. I'll be here for a couple more hours and then back to the crib to see The Robinator's progress on the office. I hope I'm not there for the bulk of the work...cuz yall think I cuss? Sheesh...just wait. I'm suuuuuuuuuuure it shall be a HILARIOUS process! ROFL!
Oh yeah...how funny is it that we didn't get the chairs yet? LOL! So even if he gets everything done today...we can't sit in it. ROFL! Shhhhhhhhhh...don't tell him I told yall that part. He's mighty proud of himself.
I've been up since goodness this morning participating in an editing boot camp. I met Robby at The Container Store to get our his/her office stuff and we had a quick meal out and about while we waited for them to pull our stuff. Man...it's ALOT of pieces. LOL!
Well...then I did a bit of shopping that I haven't had time to do since I was on that side of town and returned home at 9:30pmish when I first left around 7:45amish. *SIGH*
So...since I have a full day tomorrow too...Robby is going to put together the office. I won't be here to help him so I decided to clear out the room tonight so I can do something you know? Well...my house is in a disarray because I had to move everything out of that room and put it all over the guest bedroom. Sure...it's neat but baaaaaaaaaaaby...I'm all discombobulated. I can't deal. I can't deal with stuff not being where it's supposed to be. Just...EWWWWWWW!
I'm in bed and all I can think about is that everything is all outta place. I mean...far be it that we have an emergency guest ya know? I'd be DEVASTATED!
(@Erica B...don't tell Michael. He already thinks I'm crazy.)
What about you? Can you sleep when your house is in a disarray? How can you be comfortable knowing crap is all over everything? SHEESH!
What do you think of bone straight cuts? For instance...the guy who cuts my hair cuts it and styles it with no bend. The hair movement is optimal at this point and you can really see your layers, the shape of your cut and the bluntness in the back. I'm much more used to my hair having a bend so I'm quick to add some to the sides and the ends...but you don't really see "the cut" when this happens.
When I wear my hair staight with no bend...I always think it looks odd even though it's when people seem to notice it the most and are very complimentary.
So...what say you? When you see a completely blunt cut with no bend...what do you think?
When I walk into a public bathroom with someone I'm familiar with and we go into our separate stalls and she talks to me while I'm handling my bizness. Da hell are you smoking????????? SHUT UP AND DON'T SAY ISH TO ME UNLESS YOU NEED ME TO PASS YOU SOME TISSUE HELL!
...and how is it that SOME get a pass making them?
Former Reagan administration Secretary of Education Bill Bennett: "[Y]ou could abort every black baby in this country, and your crime rate would go down." [Salem Radio Network's Bill Bennett's Morning in America, 9/28/05]
Pat Robertson: "If [Venezuelan President Hugo Chavez] thinks we're trying to assassinate him, I think that we really ought to go ahead and do it." [Christian Broadcasting Network's The 700 Club, 8/22/05]
Bill O'Reilly to San Francisco: "[I]f Al Qaeda comes in here and blows you up, we're not going to do anything about it. ... You want to blow up the Coit Tower? Go ahead." [Westwood One's The Radio Factor with Bill O'Reilly, 12/8/05]
Bill O'Reilly, agreeing with caller that illegal immigrants are "biological weapon[s]": "I think you could probably make an absolutely airtight case that more than 3,000 Americans have been either killed or injured, based upon the 11 million illegals who are here." [Westwood One's The Radio Factor with Bill O'Reilly, 4/15/05]
Rush Limbaugh: "Feminism was established so as to allow unattractive women easier access to the mainstream of society." [The Rush Limbaugh Show, 8/12/05]
Rush Limbaugh on the kidnapping of peace activists in Iraq: "I'm telling you, folks, there's a part of me that likes this." [The Rush Limbaugh Show, 11/29/05]
Ann Coulter: Bill Clinton "was a very good rapist"; "I'm getting a little fed up with hearing about, oh, civilian casualties"; "I think we ought to nuke North Korea right now just to give the rest of the world a warning." [New York Observer, 1/10/05]
Ann Coulter: "Isn't it great to see Muslims celebrating something other than the slaughter of Americans?" [Syndicated column, 2/3/05]
Radio host Glenn Beck: "[Y]ou know it took me about a year to start hating the 9-11 victims' families? Took me about a year." [Premiere Radio Networks' The Glenn Beck Program, 9/9/05]
Tucker Carlson: "Canada is a sweet country. It is like your retarded cousin you see at Thanksgiving and sort of pat him on the head. You know, he's nice, but you don't take him seriously. That's Canada." [MSNBC's The Situation with Tucker Carlson, 12/15/05]
American Family Association president Tim Wildmon: Liberals "don't have the kind of family responsibilities most people have, and certainly not church responsibilities." [American Family Radio's Today's Issues, 5/11/05]
David Horowitz on Cindy Sheehan: "It's very hard to have respect for a woman who exploits the death of her own son and doesn't respect her own son's life. ... She portrays him as an idiot." [MSNBC's Connected: Coast to Coast, 8/16/05]
Radio host Neal Boortz on the execution of Stanley "Tookie" Williams: "[T]here will be riots in South Central Los Angeles and elsewhere. ... The rioting, of course, will lead to wide scale looting. There are a lot of aspiring rappers and NBA superstars who could really use a nice flat-screen television right now." [Boortz.com, 12/12/05]
Pat Buchanan: "Our guys" in Iraq "have got every right to have good news put into the media and get to the people of Iraq, even if it's got to be planted or bought." [MSNBC's Hardball with Chris Matthews, 12/1/05]
National Review editor Rich Lowry: Given EPA-mandated "small-flush" toilets, "[h]ow is it possible to flush a Quran down the toilet?" [Young America's Foundation speech, 8/5/05]
Neal Boortz, suggesting that a victim of Hurricane Katrina housed in an Atlanta hotel consider prostitution: "I dare say she could walk out of that hotel and walk 100 yards in either direction on Fulton Industrial Boulevard here in Atlanta and have a job. What's that? Well, no, no, no. ... Well, you know what? [laughing] Now that you mention it ... [i]f that's the only way she can take care of herself, it sure beats the hell out of sucking off the taxpayers." [Cox Radio Syndication's The Neal Boortz Show, 10/24/05]
Focus on the Family founder and chairman James C. Dobson: Same-sex marriage would lead to "marriage between daddies and little girls ... between a man and his donkey." [Focus on the Family radio program, 10/6/05]
Accuracy in Media editor Cliff Kincaid: "Have you noticed that many news organizations, in honor of former ABC News anchorman Peter Jennings, have embarked on a quit smoking campaign? So why don't our media launch a campaign advising people to quit engaging in the dangerous and addictive homosexual lifestyle? ... It appears that the homosexual lifestyle is as addictive as smoking." [Accuracy in Media column, 12/14/05]
Did you see this? I seriously almost burst a blood vessel laughing when he asked Elizabeth what would happen if someone made a clip of the five stupidest things she's ever said and played them in a continuous loop. Obviously he was loaded for just her stupid-ass questions about the pastor. Obviously I'm deliriously tired, but I'm still laughing my heiny off at her expression. Five of the stupidest things? Hell, they could make a mini-series of the stupid shit she's said just on the show. What a hoot! I'll vote for him just for that comeback alone.
I need yall to not forget that we still have a war going on in Iraq. We still have soldiers being killed along with innocent civilians every day. We are still spending TRILLIONS of dollars in Iraq and our wounded soldiers are STILL having to deal with red tape stoopitity once they return home injured after fighting a war their President sent them to fight.
This is STILL going on and we cannot FORGET IT for one single SECOND! IMMA NEED YOU TO KEEP THIS ON YOUR RADAR!