You've met a high profile celebrity during a chance encounter and have been getting to know each other via the phone and instant messaging.
You find that his life is MUCH different than you thought it would be and that he spends quite a bit of time alone and is usually in his room wherever he is traveling to before and after his event.
He's single.
You're single.
He's going out of the country for work in a couple of months and invites you to come along.
You take off a week from work and travel with him and you guys have a wonderful time.
Before you know it...you've fallen in love with each other and your life has changed. You've had to quit your job and you pretty much are traveling with him and enjoying life...his life.
He recognizes the sacrifices you've made to be with him and puts an agreement in place that pays you a salary that covers what you were making in your position, pays off your home, car and credit card debt and is very generous with an allowance by way of your being a user on his Centurion card.
Yall are in LOVE.
Everything is going well. Perfect even.
Then...he asks you to marry him and you say yes...of course.
During the discussions about what married life is going to be like it comes up that he believes all men cheat in his industry and that the successful marriages are the ones where the wife is aware that these "flings" mean nothing and that sometimes it's just to break up the boredom because he's a creative person. He tells you that he would have never asked you to marry him if he didn't see you growing old together but wants to be honest and realistic from jump. He also says this would always be done in a respectful way and that you'd never know about it just as you never know about some of the biggest names out there and their "hotel room flings." (Flings where a woman just shows up in their hotel room escorted by security and escorted out by security once the deed is done never to be revisited.)
He also says he sees you being his true partner in every sense of the way once you get married with your name on property, accounts, his production company, etc.
The conversation ends with you "thinking" about it while he heads off to work for a week without you.
What do you decide?
