I've done a lot of thinking on the state of dating in the past couple of days based on some emails I received and read over the holiday weekend. I know my philosophy of dating and I know how well it worked for me. I also know the dating philosophy of most of my girls and I know that there is a lot that women like my girls and I don't take into consideration that my MALE friends do.
I automatically know that men are going to approach me. I know this because of the consisitency of it in my life. Sometimes it's so predictable it's hilarious but I'm used it so it's not even conversational fodder anymore.
I never think of how this would be if I were NOT me. NOT uber confident. NOT outgoing. NOT personable. And yall...there are a lot of women for whom this is a problem. They don't walk with their heads high. They don't have anything about their initial appearance that says..."Hi." They just walk though life not being noticed by anyone other than someone looking for someone with obvious low self esteem so they may shat on them.
I'm trying to work through in my head what I'm trying to say and it hasn't come to me yet. I do know that for the women I have been pondering...waiting and not being more aggressive isn't working for them and I'm trying to figure out what could so I'm pouring through my archives looking for stuff to create conversation regarding and yet...as always...only the MOST confident are commenting. LOL! And yall don't need no dang dating advice hell. ROFL!
Help me figure out what I'm trying to say. I found out I'm not pregnant on Sunday and that is all up in my head befuddling my words and I can't get em out right. I'm sure it's only temporary but I didn't want the women in question to wait on me to get my shit together before I addressed their queries.