I was listening to a song with that in the chorus and I said it was true that too many lovers in a lifetime isn't good. Someone thought I said TWO lovers and commented on it. The discussion that followed was interesting because it pointed out differences generationally and based on male/female views.
Tell me...what do you think about women having two regular lovers during the same period? What do you think about men who do the same?
I got so annoyed that I called her and when she didn't answer...called her back again.
She answered and told me she was in a meeting.
So I didn't get to say what I wanted to say and I'm mad. Seriously...I'm mad.
Look...and this goes for all of yall...
I never, ever, ever understand when folks take to heart something some ASSHOLE says to or about them instead of focusing on the MILLIONS of things people who love them and have their best interests at heart have said to them. Like...seriously. Don't do that ish. Becca is one of my personal framily Sheros and that's not something I take lightly. Doing triathlons make her happy and proves to me what I already know...she fuggin ROCKS!
Man...I'm PISSED and I ain't got ish nice to say. Yall go over there and be motivating.
Imma stay mad for a few more minutes.
SIP: We should get dude's information and visit the next time we have free time.
Last night I checked into my hotel around 8:30pm. I got in my room and called Robby, sat on the bed and talked to him while I put my stuff the way I like it to be. See...I'm weird so I put my suitcase on the luggage rack inside the closet and I leave all of my things in there except for my electronic bag which I sit on the ottoman next to the bed.
After our conversation I went to the bathroom and noticed the floor was dirty. Like...really dirty. So I called down and asked could someone come up and clean the bathroom floor. Well...as I'm waiting on the answer, my hand is on the desk and I feel crumbs and that was too much for my little brain to register. I requested another room.
Once I SEE the dirt I can't deal.
So the young man came up and met me and let me in the room next door. I walked into the room and went straight to the bathroom. Before I could say anything, the young man noticed that the floor was dirty. He apologized and asked me to wait in the lounge while they cleaned the room.
I sit in the lounge with my stuff and have a glass of wine. There were some drunk folks in there being loud and annoying so after about 20 minutes I went out and waited outside the room they were cleaning for me. I noticed that two people I'm familiar with (this is the hotel I stay in every time I'm here and the hotel I'm currently working on a contract to house our cast and crew) in the room.
I overhear the housekeeper saying to the two people in the room: "There, it's clean. If she complains this time it's cause she's one of those trying not to pay."
Now...it's late as HELL. I'm tired as HELL. I ALWAYS pay and I'm a VERY.GOOD.TIPPER. Also...I'm in talks to house crew and cast at this hotel for an entire month and have a meeting to sign the contract this morning at 9:00am.
I'm curious as to what YOU would have done when they walked out of that room and realized you were RIGHT THERE.
Seriously...Charlie Wilson just sang this on "The View" and BLEW.ME.AWAY! It was AMAZING! JUST...WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOW! I'm about to go buy this album...RAT.NOW! I was up in this mofo swaying and looking for a damn lighter to hold up.
I'm feeling some kinda way this morning because it seems like hateful shit is the norm these days and that cramps my spirit something awful.
It started last night with that hateful azz anti-gay shit and this morning when I read that story of that poor homeless woman...my mood simply tanked.
I don't know why things like this affect me so badly but they seriously do. Sure...I know I don't know them people like that and sure...in the world we live in it seems that you should just empathize with you and yourN and nor worry about other folks but hell...I'm just not built like that.
Look...this world is filled with people from all walks of life and circumstances. You never know what someone is dealing with. A homeless woman being thrown in jail for educating her child? Seriously? And folks knew the situation before they threw her in jail? SERIOUSLY?