I was rocking a tunic with jeans and the date of a male friend asked me why was I wearing a tunic because it did nothing for me. She then went on to tell me that with my body, I could wear pretty much anything I wanted to since I didn't have to hide anything. According to her...what's the use in being in shape if all you're going to do is cover it up.
I stopped talking.
My friend, her date, sent me a text which said: THANK YOU FOR NOT BLASTING HER CRAZY AZZ. YOU'LL NEVER SEE HER AGAIN. I PROMISE.
I looked down at the text and then back up again.
Still not amused.
I responded to the text with: OKAY
We never spoke of it again and I never heard her name again.
I just thought about that.
I didn't say anything because I respect and love my friend and didn't want to put him in an awkward position. I seriously thought about what it said about their relationship that she didn't think the same.
It made me think about the fact that, new people come and go...old friends generally stay the same. I doubt if she ever even considered her behavior as inappropriate. Like...I didn't tag her azz out of respect for him and knows me well enough to know that's the ONLY reason I didn't tell her azz to go play in traffic.
People play too much.
When you don't care for a friend of a friend (date) do you say anything or do you keep it on the low-low?