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I don't normally have skin issues with my face unless something is out of whack big time. This winter was wreaking havoc and I had a couple of dry patches which freaked me out. I found my fingers constantly reaching for the patches and rubbing them. Like...I was unconsciously so curious about the touch and feel of them. I'd tried some new moisturizers that other friends shared they were using and something in them was far too strong for my skin and it got irritated.
I went in for a consultation for a facial and got far more information than I thought I needed and samples of VERY expensive products which smelled nice. Since I'm all weirded out about new stuff...I went to check out reviews and whatnot of the fancy, smancy products which would cost me about $260 to purchase.
Then...I found the most fascinating website EVER! Paula's Choice Beautypedia
LOVE, LOVE, LOVE, LOVE THIS WEBSITE! I used the review search tool: Search Reviews
The super expensive products I was researching got a 'poor' review. Why? Because of the cost. Basically...I could get the same benefits from products FAR.LESS.EXPENSIVE. One of the brands suggested was CeraVe.
Shelly: That's what I use. My dermatologist told me to use it.
SIP: *BLINK* So um...erra...you been holding out on me?
Shelly: You ain't ask heffa!
SIP: (Note to self...cut her deep and for true next time.)
No more dry patches and all is well in my face world again.
Robby doesn't know it yet but he is totally changing to their sunscreen too. So there. We will do this graceful aging thing together. LOL!
Oh...and here's some coupons for it: CeraVe Coupons
Check out the products you use on Paula's Choice website and tell me what you find. I'm totally curious. Oh yeah...and who knew about this site and didn't tell us? Humph.
Has anyone tried this app out yet? Plum Perfect
Your face wash and moisturizer...are they from the same brand and line within the same brand?
All of my usual stuff wasn't giving me the results I was looking for so I tried this:
And it makes me happy, happy, happy. I keep it where I sit on the sofa and my hands are never dry feeling again! GO ME!
To keep my nails right, I still rub coconut oil into my nails before I go to bed. Keeps them healthy, strong and clear.
What are you using on your hands this winter? Did you have to change up? Have you had any issues with dryness this winter?
I couldn't figure out my eye shape even though I did the Smashbox test on YouTube that showed you how to determine your eye shape.
When I saw that they were at Nordie's doing makeup...I decided to see what they categorized my eyes as and...how'd they'd do those wings on me.
Do you know your eye shape? Have you tried the wings yet? Are you good at it? Your day-to-day makeup...what is the main color of your eyeshadow?
So yeah...the new hair guy wanted me to go natural. Or texturize. I chose texturize. I was extremely unhappy with my hair. I suffered lots of breakage because of the two textures of my hair and I'm just really not the person with the level of patience necessary to be successful.
So...I went back to my old faithful, Affirm. I ordered a 4lb tub from Amazon with all the stuff that goes along with it and it arrived last night. This morning?
I BUSTED THE HELL OUTTA THE THICKNESS.
I used a normal lye relaxer instead of a mild no-lye relaxer so I could deal with the new thickness that is my new growth since I stopped eating gluten. And now? I'm happy again. You have no idea. I like my hair straight. I like my hair to move. I don't like the amount of work it takes to get it straight and to move when it's not for real relaxed.
New guy is awesome for anyone who wants to transition into his version of healthy hair. Old me just wants her hair to look like she wants it to look. GO.ME. My hair is now straight again. I won't do the rinse again because he was totally right about that. I'm going to grow it out about 3 more inches and keep it this way forever.
Or until I change my mind again. LOL!
Any relaxed hair people still out there? Anybody who tried the transition thing and decided it wasn't for them?
Inside this jar, is the most magical hot oil hair treatment I've ever used on my hair. See...it's been so dry this winter and my scalp has decided it's SO.OVER.IT. So I needed to do something. Shelly uses olive oil on her hair but that just made a complete mess for me. I had olive oil everywhere it seemed. I needed something thicker and castor oil was simply TOO thick. So...I put half castor oil and half olive oil in an Herb-ox jar (I HARDLY EVER THROW THESE AWAY! They come in handy for so many things!) and heat it in the microwave for about 30 seconds. Then I put on my hair with my hands, massaging it in well. I cover it with a wet, hot towel and then cover the towel with a plastic cap until the towel is cool to touch. Then...I wash and condition my hair.
FAB-U-LOUS! No more itchy scalp!
I don't know if it will work with your hair type but I know it works uber well with mine so, if it's not something you already do...give it a try and let me know how it worked out.
If you do hot oil treatments...what do you use? How long do you keep the oil on for? How often do you do the treatments?
I was in Target recently and stopped at the new Sonia Kashuk body products. I loved the smell of the Yellow Alluriana Shower Gel so I put it in my basket. I thought it was $5.99 and it smelled REALLY good and I LOVE grapefruit and verbena. The container size wasn't that big so $5.99 was okay I guess.
When I checked out...I looked at my receipt and it was $8.99. I questioned the cashier and I was told that I had to go to customer service. UGH!
But for $3...I headed that way.
When the customer service agent scanned it...it was $8.99. She then asked me how much I thought it cost and I said $5.99. She said she'd adjust the price.
Her: If it's within $10...we can adjust the price to what you thought you were paying.
Me: But that's not how much it costs.
Her: It's okay.
And she returned $3.00 to me.
Because I THOUGHT it cost $3 less.
I walked out of there still confucious and every.single.time I use the body wash it makes me happy. Happy because it really does smell wonderful and kinda sneaky grin-ey happy because I got away with $3.
Have you ever received a price adjustment to what you THOUGHT something cost at Target? Isn't it odd?
So...Christie Brinkley turned 60. You know her...supermodel chick. Major genetic lottery pool winner. No surprise that she looks so good right?
Here's the thing though...I know some folks younger than us who look waaaaaaay older than us. Does that mean that we won the genetic lottery pool too? Or...does it simply point out that when you focus on having healthy habits...you don't age as much as some? Can you "fake" winning the genetic lottery? Do you have unhealthy habits that you know you need to fix? What do YOU think you need to do differently?
I've read a couple of times where skin care experts tell women to not wash their face in the morning. They say to wash it at night but in the morning...just splash water on it and moisturize. Something about the natural oils in your skin being the best thing for it and you shouldn't wash them off too often.
I can't wrap my brain around not washing my face in the morning. I wash it both at night and in the morning. What do YOU think?
Google search: don't wash face in the morning
I was reading this month's More magazine and there was an article about how to have your best hair at 30, 40 and 50. I quickly skipped to the 40 page and read up on what I'm supposed to look out for and what I can do.
I couldn't find the current article online but this basically what they said:
Great. I have going bald to look forward to. The more I read about this aging shit...the more I want to opt out. Seriously.
This shit is for the birds. LOL! I canNOT stop laughing at this shit! Eyes bad and baldness in my future. One of my surrogate mothers told me that my face looks ashy. And I was moisturized. LOL! WITH BRONZER! LOLOLOLOL! Now...in my defense...she wasn't wearing her glasses and she's way older than me but hell. What the hell is next? I'm not taking this ish lying down.
If you know of some secret stuff to fight all of this inevitable ish coming down the pipeline...Imma need yall to speak up hell. Don't be keeping the secret of the bees to yourself. That shit is not sisterly. If you have a fountain of youth out back...ship me a bottle. Please and thank you.
Have you started noticing some of these things happening? What are you doing? Do you FOCUS on aging well? Are you eating right? Working out? Drinking water?
I keep a little pack of these in my travel bag. Normally...when I'm traveling...I put on mascara or something to look mo' betta-er. They work pretty well removing eye makeup but I always wash my face properly after using them. I was reading something this morning and it stated that you don't have to wash your face after you use them.
What say you? When you use one of these...do you still wash your face the normal way?
I've been looking for something different to do with my hair and today I found it something I like! GO ME! Whatcha think?
Geisha girl look.
The texture of this style is simply so amazing. What do you think?
What do you think? Which of the three should I rock?
Sometime this past Spring, I read about a contest Jennifer Aniston was having about being obsessed with hair. I was sitting on the deck with my laptop and pressed record and made a quick, quirky video adding different pictures of me wearing my hair differently. I was bored and it was something fun to play around with.
I sent it in.
About a month ago they contacted me and told me I was a runner up in the contest and I won $100 gift certificate to use their products at Living Proof.
Cool! Me love free stuff!
GO ME! GO ME!
I then asked her which product line should I try since I'm Black and my hair ain't like Jen-Jen's. LOL! She told me to try the Restore line which is for dry hair.
When I received the product I was at the end of a relaxer stretch and wasn't going to do anything with my hair anyway but honestly...once I added my leave-in conditioner I thought to myself...hmmmm...I bet I could blow dry and flat iron it without a bunch of tangling so I tried it and it worked well.
I was happy with the way my hair turned out but I wasn't ecstatic until I tried the Targeted Repair Creme. This stuff felt really good on my hair. I only used a little bit but that little bit went a long, long way. I learned that first week that I can't use it every day because it's thicker than I'm used to...but using it every other day works wonders.
I read some reviews online which suggest it doesn't work well on natural hair but they were using the No-Frizz line so I'm wondering if they would have had better results had they used the Restore line too.
They sent me a sample of this product and I think I'm going to order it too: Perfect Hair Day
All-in-all I'm pretty darned pleased with it since I've been over here bouncing and behaving. LOL! GO ME!
Have you tried any new hair products lately? Share please! You know we're always looking for something hot!
Well...it's finally happened. My eye doctor tells me that I need reading glasses. *sigh*
This wouldn't be as traumatic if I only read at home but I'll be out and about looking some kinda crazy trying to read something on a menu or something and it's become bothersome to say the least.
I spent the better part of an hour trying to find a pair of frames to no avail. I got some good ideas...but nothing jumped out at me.
Here are a few that were okay but just OKAY:
I really like the styles of this designer. Lafont. And I LOVE that their "name" is only on the inside of the frame and not emblazoned all along the side. I want them to be stylish, of course, but not all BOING LOOKA ME WITH MY FANCY FRAMES! I feel like I want my glasses to be simple in that aspect.
They are metal and have those nose things that I hate because they leave a print on my nose and I remember my father ALWAYS had a print on his nose and it brings back all kinds of weird memories when I see prints on sides of my nose like that when I wear sunglasses with those nose things and yes I know I have issues but yall already know I'm not working on them so there.
These were far more comfortable to me but I don't like the logo on the side. They are plastic and don't have those nose things. They felt like I was rocking a pair of sunglasses and after a few minutes I didn't even feel them on my face which is a good thing right?
So now I'm online looking at too much stuff like shape size of glasses for my face shape, etc. and getting overwhelmed. Robby is, of course, no help. He's all...the sooner you get them the sooner you can see again.
Old practical azz. UGH!
How old were you when YOU had to get glasses if you wear them. What shape is your face? What shape are your glasses? Are yours plastic or metal? Do you have those nose thingys? Any tips?
I put a rinse in my hair last night and dried it before going to bed. When I got up this morning I was brushing my teeth as I remembered that I'd dreamed that my hair was blond. I straight up SNATCHED my headscarf off my head in sheer PANIC and, even as my hair was still a shiny nice new dark brown...it took me a few seconds to calm down.
You ever have a weird dream about hair or beauty issues?
What concealer do you use if you use one?
I bought this one long ago and only just started using it properly for my super big luggage hereditary under eye bags that ain't going nowhere: Secret Concealer - #6 by Laura Mercier - 11205524702
Lots of bubble baths happen at 13700. My FAVORITE bubble bath stuff for daily use (not super special stuff I use sparingly cuz it's expensive mind ya)?
Yup...ye olde faithful Calgon and Dr. Teal's Foaming Bath. Not together of course. I tend to use Dr. Teal's at night. Whew. Just delightful! Add some candles and music and VOILA! Relaxation station!
Do YOU ever take bubble baths? What do you use?
Four of my friends had on blue nail polish Saturday and now I soooooooooooooooooo want some! LOL! Have you rocked blue yet? How about green? I tend to stick to colors which kinda go with my skin color so using primary colors (other than red) is not my norm.
What say you? What colors do you normally reach for? Especially as a professional woman in a professional environment.
One conversation centered around how over 40 skin can look and feel dryer than we're used to and it was determined that the only thing that helps with that is regular exercise for increased circulation and moisturizing with a GOOD moisturizer daily before your skin is completely dry out of the shower. Never scrub your skin dry with the towel. Pat it dry and when you're putting on your lotion...kinda massage it in with circular motions like they do when you're getting a massage.
If you're noticing serious dryness, get you some Eucerin. You can try a free sample if you fill out the form over here: Eucerin
I buy the Intensive Repair one with the green lid.
One thing you shouldn't ever skip is moisturizing your skin. When your skin is extra dry it itches. When it itches you scratch and scratching can leave marks. Keeping it moisturized also helps scars fade quicker and well...your skin looks healthier.
Also...a little dab of vitamin E mixed in with your normal lotion will help if you have dark spots. It's thick as all get out so a little dab will do ya just fine.
We have to take care of ourselves because we all know that when we look good we feel good and vice versa. We have to FOCUS on keeping our stride STANK!
What type of moisturizer are YOU using?
I was having a conversation with a friend who was complaining about the discoloration spots on the backs of her thighs. She hates them. Like...it's the bane of her existence. She is constantly looking up ways to get them gone and has tried pretty much everything available.
She asked if I had any and I said...YUP. I also have them on my lower back and my underarms. She then asked what do I do about them.
When air drying, I've incorporated an apple cider vinegar rinse into my hair routine. I find it gives my hair a smoothness and a shine that I used to have before these damn after 40 wiry grey hairs started doing whatever the heck they want to do in my hair.
I mix 1/3 cup of apple cider vinegar to a quart or so of water (Honestly...I put it in a dollar store pitcher and just add water to the vinegar so I don't know how much water I use. I just fill it up.) and pour it over my hair and then run a bit of plain water on it.
I'm sure most of you already do this and just keep it to yourself like yall did with the t-shirt drying method cuz you want your hair to look way better than ours cuz you're all selfish and whatnot. LOL! If you do this...how much ACV do YOU use? How often do you do it? What does it do to YOUR hair? Shelly did it last night and is all happy this merntink with her soft, shiny curls. LOL!
If you were about to pain your toes...which color would YOU choose?
Young people were in and out walking and enjoying the sunshine wearing the shortest shorts fashion has deemed presentable to date in my lifetime.
They'd walk a bit and unconsciously tug the shorts at the crotch area to pull them down a bit because, I can only imagine, that thick, folded crease at the crotch could probably get uncomfy ya know?
The most interesting thing, however, was that many of these young ladies had cellulite. And I'm talking YOUNG. Like...late teens and early 20s. And most of them had back thigh cellulite.
They weren't overweight. They appeared to be fit. But yeah...cellulite.
That was interesting to me because I'm of the thought that cellulite either appeared if you were overweight or older. I guess that's not the case?
Did you think the same? Have YOU noticed these young ladies with cellulite already? Is it odd? OR...is it simply a case of not seeing so many people in super short shorts so we never noticed it before?
Have YOU ever used a brow kit? Which one?
What are your go-to hair blogs when you have a serious question about your hair?
Mine? Just Grow Already
On top of being extremely knowledgeable about relaxed hair...she just seems like she's such a nice person. Me likey nice people! GO JENNIFER!
Whatchu got? Please remind us if you're relaxed or natural.