Rantings of a Creole Princess

Dating 101: Beware the Crazy Pebbles

I was talking to someone about dating and sharing that the most important part...IN MY OPINION...is taking your time to get to know the person just dating without trying to force anything.  No jumping right into a relationship cuz you're single and they're single.  See...I feel like you need to give the crazy pebbles a chance to surface so you know exactly what you're dealing with.

And then...it got kinda gray because I couldn't really explain exactly what I was trying to say.

See...you know I believe that God sends you pebbles before He hits you with a brick.

Crazy pebbles too.

The thing about crazy pebbles that's most important is how YOU are able to deal with them.

So I used a for example...

I've decided....

...that it must be easier to dog out men than for a lot of women to look at their own ish and go...HMMMMMMMMMMMMM...Could I POSSIBLY be the common denominator?

All men don't treat all women the same. REMEMBER THAT. The same fool that messed over you will possibly treat the next one like a Princess. Why? CUZ SHE DEMANDED NUTTIN LESS.

Work on yourself and stop dragging down everyone else. If everyone did that...wow...MAJOR progress would be made.

If he ain't no good...why the helz you still talking bout him? Why the helz you still thinking bout him? WHY THE HELZ YOU STILL WONDERING WHAT WENT WRONG? FORGET THAT FOOL IF IN FACT HE WAS A FOOL! All this yappin bout him make me think you want him back. MOVE ON HELL!

If I get bad service somewhere...I DON'T GO BACK AND KNOW WHAT TO LOOK FOR WHEN FINDING A NEW PLACE TO PROVIDE THOSE SERVICES. Utilize that strategy with men. If you ain't attracting ish but ain't ish azz suckas...then you must be AIN'T ISH AZZ BAIT!

Imma let that one MARINATE.

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Got it? GOOD!

Can't nobody do nuttin to you that you don't LET them do. YOU GOT THE POWER OVER EVENTS IN YOUR.DAMN.LIFE.PERIOD! If he kept messing over you and using you then helz...THAT'S ON YOU! You gots one time hotboy and CreoleInDC is heading for the next. Why? Cuz it'll be GREATER LATER as my Weezy says. My stride is DEF too STANK for all that headache.

YOU KNOW WHO I'M TALKING TO. AND STAY OUT MY DAMN INBOX! IF MEN ARE SO DAMN BAD...BE A LESBIAN! But knowing you...you'll be complaining bout how they wear their hair. Big Dummy!

***This post is dedicated to all the GOOD MEN I know and love. No worries...yall got allies. Ya girl CreoleInDC got yo back.

Humph.

(CreoleInDC mumbling: I gotta come home and be innundated with THIS ish. TO THE LEFT TO THE LEFT!)

P.S. And if you didn't get this almost verbatim from me in an email...I AIN'T TALKING TO YOU! BUT...if you need to hear it too...THEN SO BE IT...LEARN FROM IT! MEN DO WHAT THEY WANNA DO. IF HE WANTED TO TREAT YOU LIKE A PRINCESS...HE WOULD. You just gotta make sure he knows that's all you will accept.

HUMPH!