From what I understand, Alicia Keys' married boyfriend's wife sent her the following on Twitter yesterday and says she's going to resend everyday until Alicia Keys answers her.
After having a great evening with my son and enjoying
some fun twit chat, I decided to sign off and get some work done.
However, a few hours later I was advised that I should check
@aliciakeys twit page. I’ve never reached out to her on twitter before.
I feel our issues are a lot more serious than a website conversation.
Not to mention that I’ve reached out to her many times in the beginning
of this whole thing, as any wife would do. Unfortunately, I never
succeeded in getting a response. The 1st time I meet AK, my husband
introduced us to each other at an event. ( I have no choice but to call
him my husband, until he is not anymore) In the messages that I sent to
her (AK), I made it very clear that on the contrary of what she might
be hearing, I am still married to my husband, living with him and just
had a child. Its been two years and I still have not received a
response. What I do receive, is constant displays of selfishness and
disconcern to me and my son.
I was a fan of AK’s last album, we were both signed to J Records and
I always checked up on her projects. I sang her songs and admired her
for creating Superwoman and Karma, I would never deny her, her talent.
I believed in her until I found out she was possibly sleeping with my
husband. The affair was denied by both, until it was finally admitted
months later.
Already I can hear some of you saying ” why are u blaming her, You
cant make someone leave their wife, You cant break something thats
broken”. Well, my marriage was not broken, as far as I knew we were
celebrating our sons birth and getting ready to celebrate our 5 year
wedding anniversary . Call it blind love, whatever. I call it being a
devoted wife.. As far as me blaming her and not blaming him, thats
false. Me and my husband have worked out our differences. We are in a
good place as people and as parents. I accept his choices and I am
comfortable enough with myself to move on. I am so very blessed in many
ways.
My concern with AK is no longer the fact that she assisted in
destroying a family but that she has the audacity to make these selfish
comments about love and wanting to be with someone, even after knowing
their situation. How is this the same Superwoman that I sang out loud
with in my truck? I ask myself sometimes.
If you are reading this Alicia, let me start by saying, you know
what you did. You know the role you played and you know how you
contributed to the ending of my marriage. You know that I asked you to
step back and let me handle my family issues. Issues that you helped to
create.
Im not saying everything was perfect all the time but no relationship
is perfect. We made a vow to God and I believe you should have
respected that, as a woman. I know you owe me or my son nothing but I
just wish you would’ve handled things more carefully. I’m not judging
you, I put you and the whole situation in the hands of God, the Higher
Power. Just know that as a woman, I expected so much more from you. I
never had intentions on reaching out to you this way but after reading
your twits tonight, and the constant disregard, you left me no choice.
I feel that after 1 and a half years of you hiding this affair and
acting like it doesnt exist, that now is the time to confront it, since
you talk so openly about it now
This is not a publicity stunt, I dont have a record coming out. I
just need to close this chapter in my life and that means confronting
our issues. There is a small child involved. His dad loves him to death
and he wants to spend more time with him but hes afraid because he
knows we don’t have a relationship. This is my main concern. My son
NEEDS his dad and I NEED to be comfortable with you. For him!
I know many will see my point and many will not be able to look into
what’s real because they only want to see Alicia Keys the celebrity,
not the human. This is not for the “people”, this is for you. Like I
said I was left no choice but to reach out to you this way. By now, Im
sure you want to find a balance in this as well.
I read your tweets tonight and I felt they were very insensitive.
You have no idea how much pain I was caused because of this affair. Its
baffling to me that you don’t understand what I might have gone through
with this situation. I dont consider myself a victim anymore, Ive
learned alot from this! I just ask you to try and be a bit more
realistic and delicate to the situation, at least until my divorce is
final. I felt me attending the party would have been a starting point
for us, since you shook my hand after I offered it, but I suppose I was
wrong.
If its so, that you and my husband are meant to be together, then
God bless you both and I hope you never have to deal with what I did. I
would not wish it on my worst enemy. If you two being together forever
is the case, its more of a reason for us to get along, because I’m not
going anywhere. Theres a child to be raised.
To answer your tweet, choose smart over spark. Sparks burn everyone,
be smart! Its simple actually, just think of the shoe being on the
other foot.
Stay blessed and lets work this thing out with respect and dignity.
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