...cuz it could be YOU! ROFL!
I was talking to someone last night who was telling me about this guy they are dating and the things his baby mama (ex-wife)does. She started off by saying, of course, that the woman is CRAZY.
*sigh*
We talked and I got off the phone and then I was reading the comments in the post regarding the young lady yesterday and it hit me that ya girl said ole boy's ex-wife was crazy as well.
Crazy.
How many times have you heard someone describe their ex as crazy? I mean yeah...there are some crazy people out there...but do you think it matches the amount of times a person has actually been labeled crazy?
Remember me...dude chick. Girl with lots of guy friends. Lawd...I have heard every ex they have ever dated being labeled as crazy when they broke up. Now keep in mind that previously this woman was the best thing God gave mankind and they were oooooooooooooh soooooooooooo in love with her enough to marry her even in some cases...but now...Yup...CRAZY.
Now let's break down a few of these relationships shall we?
There was the time when the girlfriend found out that her boyfriend had like three other women he was "seeing" and ended up so enraged she keyed his car after finding out that one of the chicks was preggo. She thought they were on a path to marriage and found out all of this right after she'd just loaned him $500 for supposedly some books he needed but turns out it was for something else I'd rather not say here. CRAZY huh?
Or the time a girlfriend popped up on the dude and he had company over sleeping on the sheets she'd just bought him when she surprised him by decorating his bedroom for him when he returned from serving in the Gulf War. While he was in the Gulf War she sent him care packages once a week and checked in on his mother and grandmother on the regular to see if they needed anything. Well...she came over and when he wouldn't let her in she figured out what was going on when she recognized the other car parked in front of his apartment and popped her truck and let her tire iron do the talking. He called the police. Why? She was CRAZY.
I could go on and on and on regarding this one as I've lived a long funny azz life. I could even tell you some stuff I've done myself that have labeled me CRAZY and I can tell you of a few guys I've labeled CRAZY in the past which I've thought about and asked forgiveness for cuz they weren't really CRAZY...I just did some messed up stuff regarding their feelings and it made them behave irrationally. But then again...maybe it's NOT irrational. Maybe it's VERY rational to act a damn fool when you realize you've been played the fool by someone you thought loved you and would love you forever.
All I wanted to say to men AND women is that you should think twice about that person who is being labeled as CRAZY during the re-telling of the past to you. Nine times out of ten...that person wasn't crazy AND...you need to remember this. No matter who you are...you're probably someone's ex too. ROFL. And hey...you just might be the CRAZY person being talked about somewhere. LOL! Hell..I KNOW I am.
(Me: SIP...shut up...don't say nuttin!
Stoopit Imaginary Person: Man...I'm not touching that one with a ten foot pole made out of whatever makes you Ninja's weak. TRUST.)
How many CRAZY stories have you heard about an ex? Have you ever been labeled CRAZY? Does it give you pause when someone speaks of their ex as CRAZY? Or do you think of what they could have possible done to MAKE the ex act CRAZY?