Is it really that difficult to look decent after having a baby? I really, REALLY wanna know.
One of my neighbors is a new mother and she used to be jazzy as HELL! The last three or four times I've seen her though, she's had on one of her husband's old shirts and what looks like a pair of his sweats and some damn flip flops (IN THE WINTER!).
Now I KNOW it's hard and that her priorities have changed and I only have the women I know personally to go by...but NONE of them heffas ever had a baby and then started looking like Yoda in a damn mumu afterwards. Yall shoulda seen my sister. She was the jazziest pregnant woman in the WORLD! And after? The same!
It would seem to me to not be a big deal to already have some transition pieces readily available. I mean you KNOW you're going to go to the hospital pregnant and leave NOT PREGNANT right? How difficult is it to have some decent looking clothes you can fit into waiting for you?
I just don't get it. Please school ya girl. Tell me if this is, in actuality...THE NORM. Is it really that difficult?
