Hey Monnie,
How's it going? I hope all is well.
I have sent you a link to an article regarding paternity fraud. I don't know if you have read it, but I found it interesting.
http://men.msn.com/articlemh.aspx?cp-documentid=4725722>1=9311
Here's why.
When I met my husband 15 years ago he had two daughters. I accepted them and treat the same as I do our children. Throughout the years he has always had a nagging feeling that both of the girls are not his biolical children. It even got to the point where the oldest told one of his nieces her mother told her he was not her father. When he confronted his ex, she of course denied everything. He contemplated having a paternity test done on both of the girls, but since they are teenagers (17 and 15), he decided it would be too much for them to deal with if he is not their father. So he pays the child support and they continue to visit.
My questions are: What do you think is going on in the mind of a woman who lies to a man about paternity? Do you think there is ever a time when a paternity test should not be done and the psychological well being of the child/children should be considered?