You've met a guy that you really, really like.
He really likes you and treats you really well.
He is of a different skin color than you are.
This is a first for you.
Your bestie comes to visit and meets your guy.
She doesn't approve and tells you so in private.
When she leaves you call to make sure she arrived safe.
No answer.
A week has gone by.
No answer.
What do you do?
