Let me think on how is the best way to ask this.
Hmmmmm...
So...you're married and you and your spouse take being good parents very seriously.
You want to raise your children to have the same morals and values you have as well as being accepting of all people.
How do you instill in them that you believe a child should be born to a married couple when they know so many children and people who were not?
GOOD QUESTION! THANKS!
