You've been dating a man for a year long distance.
Yall decide someone needs to move in order to see where the relationship is heading.
Your career is much more fluid than his so yall decide you should move.
It's the week before you are putting your things on a truck to drive to your new home and you're visiting relatives and saying your goodbyes.
When you get to your Grandmother's house your favorite Aunt is there.
She is less than enthusiastic about your move.
You're surprised because she's the "cool" Aunt.
She tells you that she has no respect for a man who would let his woman pack up her life onto a UHaul and drive across country alone and that this is going to be a sign that you will remember for years to come. She says he should have flown here, helped you pack and helped you make that drive across country and the fact he didn't tells her all she needs to know about him.
You good?