From My Inbox:

I have been engaged to a wonderful man for a year but have serious concerns over the way he continues to spoil his oldest daughter.  She is off to college. Yet, he continues to finance anything and everything she wants, including her iphone -cell phone bill, clothing, hair dresser and college expenses.  He also makes monthly payments over $500 on the luxury vehicle he purchased for her over a year ago. She has never had a job and continues her dependency on him.  I have tried on several occasions to talk to him about this. He doesn’t feel like there is anything wrong with it. I am not asking him to stop providing for his daughter, but I’m concerned that this could potentially cause problems in the future since there are other children between the two of us. Am I wrong for thinking this way?