So you don't go over and introduce yourself even though you're feeling some kinda way.
You go on about the event doing the wifely duty thingy.
Later, you go to the restroom with one of the wives that you know and like. You two are gabbing it up in front of the mirror when Pam walks in.
Pam sees you there and turns around and walks out.
The other wife says, "What in the hell was that all about? She saw you and acted like you were a ghost!"
You good?