I have a question for the Tribe. It's sort of a topic you're not comfortable with discussing on your blog so I'll keep it G rated.
Here goes: If someone is dating a guy who has been locked up for 10+ yrs...and the guy now INSISTS on doing certain things..that errra...are nonconventional between a man and a woman and yet insist to the point of, well you better figure it out cause I shouldn't have to NOT be able to do this with you if I want to...would that be a red flag to you? And, if it is, what would you do?