Your EN-TIRE family lives down South and they are South-ERN.
You came up North for college and stayed.
You've since gotten married, bought a home, and had a baby and yet...none of your relatives have come to visit you.
Your parents came for your graduation and wedding...but that's about it.
But they expect you to be at every.single.family function down South and get mad if you don't.
They also expect you to visit for the main holidays because they want your child to know their family.
The last time you went you told them you were going to have to keep trips at a minimum because it's not cheap to fly three people out and take off from work, etc.
You told them that they should come out at LEAST once a year for a major holiday and spend it with yall.
They acted like you'd grown three heads.
Do you think this is an unreasonable request?
How would you handle if they still refused to visit?
Is this something YOU deal with?
Does it hurt your feelings?
