You're single and have no desire to date a man with children.
You make this VERY clear to all men you meet.
You meet a man who is a lovely guy.
Yall start dating.
Everything is way cool and continue to be cool for a solid two months of seeing each other practically every day.
You're digging him BIG.TIME!
You're at a lovely dinner with him and he tells you he has to tell you something.
You're like...cool.
He admits that he has a 5 year old child with his ex-wife.
The child and ex-wife live in the same city.
You good?
How do you handle?